Facing up to Life’s Challenges

In 2020, my father unexpectedly passed away from a heart attack while playing the sport he loved most, the sport he introduced me to when I was only 9: Badminton.

August 18, 2024 by Healthy Debate Leave a Comment

By Talia Ng

In 2020, my father unexpectedly passed away from a heart attack while playing the sport he loved most, the sport he introduced me to when I was only 9: Badminton. Since then, I’ve managed to juggle school and badminton, aspiring to become a world-renowned surgeon and stand on the podium at the Olympics. My father’s passing was devastating, but it fuelled my determination to pursue my dreams relentlessly, knowing that is what he would have wanted. I focused on my studies and training, excelling in both.

Fast forward to March 7, 2024, when my doctor diagnosed me with a complex medial meniscus tear, requiring surgery. At that moment, my dream of competing in the 2024 Paris Olympics was shattered. I remember hearing a story about a world-renowned chef, the owner of a Michelin 3-star restaurant who was diagnosed with stage 4 tongue cancer, losing his ability to taste at the peak of his career. This life-altering event plunged him into a state of hopelessness, confusion, and a struggle to identify himself as the famous chef he once was.

That’s precisely how I felt.

For the two years leading up to the 2024 Olympic Games, I had dedicated all my energy to badminton. Training more than 40 hours each week, I pushed myself to my physical and mental limits. There were times when I wanted to give up, but I kept going. On that fateful day when I realized my Olympic dream had slipped away, I felt like all my hard work and countless hours of training had been for nothing. Suddenly, I didn’t know who I was anymore. All my life, I had been known as “the girl who plays badminton for Canada;” in an instant, that identity was stripped away.

Above all, competitive badminton has taught me resilience.

I felt adrift, as if I had lost my guiding star, my anchor. Plunged into despair, I searched for answers. After much introspection, I had an epiphany: I am more than just an aspiring Olympian. I am resilient, competitive and thrive on academic excellence and physical challenges. This shift in perspective helped me rediscover my essence. While my sport does not define who I am, it has instilled within me qualities that shape the person I’ve become: compassionate, disciplined, motivated and committed. Above all, competitive badminton has taught me resilience. Despite setbacks like injuries and losses, I always rose again, no matter the challenge. These essential life skills are invaluable as I pursue my other aspiration: becoming a successful surgeon.

Back to the world-renowned chef: With breakthroughs in chemotherapy and radiation protocol, his tongue cancer went into remission, and he fully regained his ability to taste, allowing him to return to what he loves. As for me, I’ve undergone successful knee surgery, regained my health, and returned to the court.

Now, I am eager to embark on a new chapter of my life, transitioning from being a professional athlete to pursuing academia and becoming a doctor. I understand that this path may not always be smooth or as anticipated but, drawing from the life experiences I’ve endured as a professional athlete, I’m confident that I’ll emerge victorious, no matter the challenges life throws my way.

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